3 Reasons Why Being Childfree Has Become More Common

• 17 Sep 2023
• Jerra Mitchell

You may have noticed how the notion of becoming and remaining childfree has increased in popularity in recent years. We believe it started during the pandemic - when childfree people noticed the increased stress that parents were facing when children were in the home 24/7. Many proclaimed, "Nope, I'm GOOD on that!" We definitely understand your sentiments...

The shift in societal norms can be attributed to several factors, and this blog post will cover three (3) main reasons why being childfree has become more common. 

Changing Perspectives on Personal Fulfillment

One of the primary reasons why being childfree has become so popular is due to the evolving perspective on personal fulfillment. In the past, societal norms often stated that marriage and parenthood were the ultimate markers of a successful and fulfilling life. However, more people today are encouraged to prioritize self-discovery, personal growth, and career aspirations. That said, they are questioning whether parenthood aligns with their individual goals and desires.

Choosing to remain childfree allows individuals and couples to focus on their own happiness and well-being. They have the freedom to pursue their passions, invest in their careers, travel the world, and engage in activities that bring them joy and fulfillment. This shift in priorities reflects a growing belief that personal happiness and self-realization allows more people to see that parenthood is no longer the only path to a meaningful existence.

Economic Realities and Financial Freedom

Recent studies revealed that it costs over $350,000 to raise a child. 3 hunnid 50K??? Wow! The financial aspect of parenthood is a significant factor driving the rise in childfree choices. Raising children can be expensive with costs spanning from prenatal care and education to healthcare and everyday expenses. With those factors in mind, many individuals and couples are weighing the financial burdens of parenthood against the benefits.

The pursuit of financial freedom and stability is a powerful motivator for remaining childfree. People are recognizing the opportunities to save for retirement, invest in their own futures, and enjoy a higher standard of living without the added financial strain of raising children. In a world where student loan debt, housing costs, and job security are pressing concerns, the decision to remain childfree can offer a sense of financial security and peace of mind. Don't you agree?

Environmental and Overpopulation Concerns

Another reason the childfree movement has gained popularity over the years is due to an increasing awareness of environmental issues and concerns about overpopulation. As climate change and environmental degradation continue to threaten the planet, many individuals are reevaluating their impact on the world. The decision to have fewer or no children is viewed by some as a responsible and sustainable choice. Some childfree individuals see their choice as a way to contribute positively to the environment, believing that by not adding to the world's population, they are helping to alleviate the strain on natural resources.

Conclusion

The ever-increasing childfree lifestyle is a key indicator of shifting societal norms, evolving perspectives on personal fulfillment, economic realities, and environmental concerns. While parenthood remains a deeply meaningful and rewarding path for many, choosing to be childfree is becoming more common as people prioritize their own happiness, financial well-being, and sustainability. Ultimately, the decision to have or not have children is a deeply personal one, and society is gradually embracing the diversity of choices that individuals and couples make regarding their family planning.

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How To Support Childfree Employees In The Workplace

• 27 Aug 2023
• Jerra Mitchell

In recent years, society has been more accepting with regard to recognizing and respecting diverse life choices. One such choice is the decision to be childfree. For many women and non binary, opting not to have children is a conscious and valid decision that deserves admiration and support, especially in the workplace.

In this blog, we'll explore the importance of supporting childfree employees and highlight ways in which workplaces can create an inclusive environment for all choices.

1. Acknowledge the Validity of Choice

Every person's life journey is unique, and decisions about family planning are deeply personal. The choice to remain childfree is often influenced by a variety of factors including career goals, personal aspirations, health considerations, financial stability, and more. It's essential to acknowledge that choosing not to have children is just as valid as choosing to have them. By recognizing and respecting this decision, you can create a workplace culture that values individuality and empowers women and non binary to live life on their own terms.

2. Foster Inclusivity

Workplaces that foster inclusivity create an environment where all employees, regardless of their life choices, feel valued and respected. Childfree people should not feel alienated or excluded due to their decision. Inclusive workplace practices involve using gender-neutral language in conversations, policies, and benefits. For instance, offering flexible work arrangements, extended parental leave (which can be utilized for other purposes), and wellness programs can benefit all employees, irrespective of their family choices.

 

3. Provide Equal Opportunities

Supporting childfree employees means ensuring they have equal access to career advancement opportunities. Assigning projects, promotions, and leadership roles based on merit rather than assumptions about family responsibilities is vital. This approach not only benefits childfree women and non binary, but also creates a meritocratic workplace that values talent and dedication.

 

4. Open Dialogue and Support

Creating an open dialogue about family choices can promote understanding and empathy among colleagues. Employers can organize forums or workshops where employees can share their perspectives and experiences without judgment. This can definitely help foster a supportive community within the workplace.

5. Celebrating Diversity

A workplace thrives when it values diversity in all its forms, including diverse life/family choices. Celebrating childfree employees alongside working mothers, single parents, and employees with different family configurations promotes a harmonious and respectful work environment.

Conclusion: A Harmonious and Inclusive Future

Supporting childfree women and non binary in the workplace is not just about embracing a single life choice, but about creating an inclusive and accepting atmosphere for everyone. By acknowledging the validity of each individual's decisions, you can create a workplace that empowers and uplifts every employee, regardless of their family plans. Through embracing diversity, we truly pave the way for a more harmonious and inclusive professional future.

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Debunking 3 Myths About Childfree People

• 08 Aug 2023
• Jerra Mitchell

The decision to remain childfree is a personal one that's often met with unfair misconceptions and stereotypes. Childfree individuals (those who intentionally choose not to have children) often experience backlash and having to verbally defend themselves about their lifestyle. In this blog, we will debunk three of the most common myths about childfree people, shedding light on the reality of our choices and experiences.

Myth 1: Childfree People are Selfish

One of the most common myths about childfree individuals is that we are selfish. This assumption stems from the belief that not having children allows them to focus exclusively on their own desires and goals. (I mean...what's wrong with that???) 

Reality: Childfree individuals make this choice for various valid reasons, including concern for the environment, career aspirations, health considerations, and the desire to contribute to society in other meaningful ways. Many actively engage in volunteer work, mentorship, and community involvement, demonstrating that their decision is far from being rooted in selfishness.

Myth 2: Childfree People are Lonely and Regretful

Another misconception is that those without children will inevitably lead lonely lives and will regret their decision as they age. "You're gonna die lonely," is a nonsensical phrase that's told to the childfree community. This myth relies on the assumption that parenthood is the sole source of companionship and fulfillment. Hmph. 

Reality: Childfree individuals cultivate deep and meaningful relationships, both within and outside their families. They have the freedom to build and maintain connections, pursue hobbies, and invest time in self-care. Furthermore, studies have shown that many childfree individuals are content with their decision as they age, because it affords them the opportunity to experience life on their own terms.

Myth 3: Childfree People Hate Children

Perhaps one of the most unfair myths is that childfree individuals dislike or even hate children. This stereotype can be damaging and is often perpetuated without any basis in reality. (Now, there are some childfree people who dislike children, and quite frankly, that's their business.)

Reality: The decision to not have children doesn't stem from a dislike of children. Childfree people have various reasons for not having children, that have no correlation to their feelings towards children. Many childfree people have positive relationships with nieces, nephews, friends' children, and other young people. Their decision reflects a thoughtful consideration of their own desires, lifestyles, and responsibilities rather than any negative feelings towards children.

Conclusion

Debunking these myths about childfree individuals is crucial for promoting understanding and respect for their lifestyle choices. Just as those who choose parenthood deserve support and understanding, so do those who choose to be childfree. Recognizing the validity of these choices and the diverse reasons behind them is critical for valuing other's personal autonomy and diverse paths to fulfillment and happiness.

3 Ways the Barbie Movie Embraces the Childfree Community

• 29 Jul 2023
• Jerra Mitchell

As of late, the portrayal of diverse lifestyles and viewpoints in movies has become increasingly prevalent. Finally! One such perspective gaining attention is that of the childfree community. The Barbie movie provides an excellent platform to explore the relevance and representation of childfree individuals. Here's 3 ways the Barbie movie embraces the childfree community: 

Breaking Traditional Norms

For decades, society has perpetuated the idea that marriage and parenthood are essential milestones in life. How many movies can you name that have these underlying messages? However, the Barbie movie challenges these traditional norms by presenting alternative paths to happiness and fulfillment. Barbie unapologetically embraces her single and childfree choice, discovers her passions, and nurtures meaningful friendships without succumbing to patriarchy. This portrayal not only empowers children to envision a life beyond the conventional family structure - but also validates the choices of the childfree community.

Defying Stereotypes

Let's face it - childfree people are always stereotyped as selfish or lacking responsibility.  The Barbie movie challenges these misconceptions by highlighting the positive aspects of not having children. It portrays childfree characters as independent, ambitious, and capable of forming deep connections outside of parenthood. By showcasing childfree characters in a positive light, the movie promotes inclusivity and acceptance, fostering empathy and understanding amongst young viewers. 

Promoting Open Conversations

As the childfree community gains visibility (yaay!), the Barbie movie contributes to initiating open conversations about family choices. It encourages children and their parents to discuss and understand diverse perspectives on parenthood. By doing so, the movie fosters an environment of acceptance, where children feel encouraged to make decisions based on their desires and aspirations, rather than societal pressures. Amen to that!

Conclusion

All in all, the movie does a great job of challenging societal norms, defying stereotypes, and promoting open conversations about family choices. By acknowledging and celebrating the childfree lifestyle, the Barbie movie exemplifies the power of media in shaping a more inclusive and compassionate society for everyone, regardless of their family decisions. As we move forward, let us embrace diverse life choices and continue to foster empathy and acceptance within all communities, especially the childfree community.

How To Protect Your Peace As A Childfree Woman

• 06 Feb 2023
• Jerra Mitchell

Living in such a patriarchal society as a childfree woman who intends to NEVER change her mind can be so draining. Don't you agree?

Some people will flat out tell you you'll change your mind, try to convince you that you're "missing out," and will swear up & down that all children are blessings.

With all the noise surrounding your reproductive rights and the constant pressure you probably receive from family and associates, here are some surefire ways to protect your peace as a childfree person: 

Find Your Tribe

I know you've probably heard the saying, "Birds of a feather flock together." By connecting with like-minded people, the likelihood of ever hearing those comments mentioned above are slim-to-none. You will feel accepted and encouraged to continue your childfree lifestyle. Childfree groups can be found on Facebook, Instagram, or MeetUp. 

Validate Yourself

Being strong-willed is another great way to protect your peace as a childfree woman. When you feel no one supports your childfree decision, it's best to gather reassurance from within. Journaling helps with self-validation also, and we have the perfect product for that!

Practice Isolation

This is particularly important and necessary during the holiday seasons. Some may not agree with isolating during Thanksgiving and Christmas - BUT if you have family members who constantly pressure you about having children (when they KNOW you don't want them), it's best to stay away from them. This avoids any arguments, disagreements, and awkward moments that might take place. Create your own traditions in the comfort (and PEACE) of your own home!

As mentioned before, these three tips will help you to protect your peace as you continue to live childfree. Remember to always remain true to YOU - unapologetically!

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The Benefits of Being Childfree

• 09 Jan 2023
• Jerra Mitchell

Not trying to brag, but there are quite a few benefits of being childfree. For the sake of time and sparing those with short attention spans, we'll discuss just a few. 

Before we get started, here's a short disclaimer: BY NO MEANS does this blog attempt to persuade readers into pursing a childfree lifestyle. The aim is to AFFIRM and reassure those who have already made a choice to become (and remain) childfree. 

Ok, let's get started, shall we? There are many benefits to being childfree which include: 

More Time and Freedom

This is pretty obvious, of course. However, with the extra time we're afforded, childfree people have the opportunity to sleep in more, devote more time to exercise, and journal - which all contribute to a healthier mindset and overall well-being. Having more time also allows us to spend it wisely, which brings us to the next point...

The Ability To Give Back More

Yes, we probably have the financial means give back and contribute to worthy causes in that aspect. However, having extra time also affords childfree people the opportunity to volunteer at local hospitals, schools, or community events. These are all very fulfilling activities, and you should find something that works for you and your schedule. 

Increased Self-Awareness

I'm sure you've taken time to come to the conclusion that you don't want children. As mentioned in a previous blog, this isn't something that we just "stumble upon." A huge benefit of being childfree - aside from the superficial things - is knowing that we confidently chose to deviate against societal "norms" and make a decision that works for us! Don't you agree?

All in all, there are SO many benefits to being childfree. If you'd like to share anything else, please do so in the comments!